Advocacy starts much earlier than labor—earlier than most people ever expect. Most parents begin advocating before they even realize there’s a word for it. And if you’re reading this thinking, “I already feel overwhelmed,” you’re not behind. You’re already doing it. If advocacy feels heavy instead of empowering at first, that’s normal. No one prepares you for how quickly the responsibility hits. One minute you’re excited, scared, maybe still in shock—and the next, you’re maki

Please hear this — and share it 🤍 Stop telling pregnant moms that decreased fetal movement is “normal” because the baby is getting bigger. It isn’t. And that belief can be dangerous. Babies do not run out of room to move. They may change how they move — fewer big kicks, more rolls and stretches — but a noticeable decrease in movement is not something to ignore. When a pregnant mom feels something is off, that instinct matters. Too many women second-guess themselves because t

A cervical cerclage is basically when a doctor puts a very strong stitch in the cervix during pregnancy to help keep it closed and doing its job—aka not opening too early before baby is ready. Think of it like a support belt or safety tie for the cervix when it’s feeling a little too relaxed on the job 😅 🧵 WHY WOULD SOMEONE NEED A CERCLAGE? 🔴 Cervical weakness (insufficiency) Your cervix is supposed to stay shut until it’s go-time. Sometimes it’s a little too chill and nee

(Or: How They Let Us Leave the Hospital With a Whole Human) Welcome home. No nurses. No call button. No one checking vitals every 30 minutes. Just you, your partner, a tiny human who has no user manual, and a silence that feels… suspicious. If you’ve ever walked through your front door holding your newborn and thought, “Oh wow. They really just let us take this baby home,” congratulations—you’ve officially entered parenthood. Let’s talk about those first few days. The beautif

Title: Navigating the Unknown: Understanding Early Pregnancy Bleeding Introduction: Pregnancy is often accompanied by joy and anticipation, but it can also bring about unexpected moments of fear and uncertainty. One such moment is the experience of bleeding during early pregnancy, which can send anyone into a panic. In this blog post, we will explore the realities of early pregnancy bleeding, including its causes, implications, and emotional impact, drawing insights from a re

No one prepares you for the emotional weight of sitting in a fertility or pregnancy clinic waiting room. It is a place filled with people, each carrying a deeply personal story. Some are hopeful, clutching the possibility of a positive test. Others carry the anxiety of uncertainty, the fresh pain of loss, or the exhaustion of a long fertility journey. The atmosphere feels heavy with silent fears and fragile hopes. Your own heartbeat can seem louder than the soft background mu

“Every pregnancy symptom has two Google results: ‘Totally normal’ or ‘Call your doctor immediately.’” This sums up the rollercoaster many expectant parents face when searching online for answers. Pregnancy brings excitement and joy, but it also brings uncertainty and worry. When a strange twinge or symptom appears, the first instinct is often to turn to Google. Yet, this habit can quickly spiral into anxiety rather than comfort. Welcome to a deep dive into why Google is not y

“The moment you get pregnant, everyone becomes a medical professional and suddenly your body is a public discussion.” This is the reality many pregnant people face. Pregnancy is a deeply personal experience, yet it often turns into a public event where strangers, family, and coworkers feel entitled to comment, advise, and judge. This post explores why pregnancy should never become public property and how to handle unsolicited opinions about your body. Welcome back to The Wadd

“They said pregnancy would make me glow. What they meant was sweat, nausea, and rage, sometimes all at once.” Welcome back to The Waddling Truth, where we say the quiet parts of pregnancy out loud. If you’re new here, this is your reminder that pregnancy isn’t broken just because it’s messy. Pregnancy is often painted as a serene, glowing experience filled with gentle moments and radiant beauty. But the truth is far more complex. The reality includes exhaustion, unexpected sy